the
3 basic tantra tantric sex
technique categories
(Warning
- There are serious karmic consequences to using a tantra tantric sex“pick up line” just to
impress (or get sex from) people who are spiritually oriented. )
The
3 basic tantra tantric sex technique categories are:
Type
1 - the
“give and receive method” - This tantra tantric sex technique involves the couple sharing their
"energies"
during sex. Think of it like a circle of
energy - an electrical circuit if you will. The couple can also "tap into" the
energies of the
Earth and the Universe/Spirit (which then feeds more energy into this
"circuit", and the energy builds and grows). This type of tantra tantric sex
technique benefits both partners.That is the basis of the method we recommend and teach.
Type
2 - the
“take” method - In this tantra tantric sex technique, one partner uses
the power of their mind (through visualization) to take advantage
of the other, essentially "sucking" and “hogging” all the sexual
and "life energy" (reiki) for themselves. This was primarily
done by men in some cultures, but women have been known to do it also,
draining a man's energy to "stay young".
Type
3 - the "modern" methods - Many new tantra tantric sex
technique methods have cropped up in the last 40
years. Created by teachers who have no
legitimate training or background (other than "certificates"
from someone with no training or background), they may still call it
tantra, tantric sex, tantric yoga, tantra yoga, or whatever, but they are
really "(E) - none of the above".
New methods are often justified by their creators, as filling a need for adapting a traditional
tantric sex
technique "for
modern times and western civilization". There is a need for
that. Yet if they've never had any traditional training, what
can they "adapt"? They can't adapt something they never had in the first
place. But we
can - and have.
While some new so-called tantric sex
techniques are just uneducated modifications of real
techniques, they are often total "fabrications". In either
case, they were "come up with" by someone who read books about tantra tantric sex, or
learned it from someone else who also didn't really know anything
about it/lacked any traditional education or training.
Such methods and teachers can be harmful, and even dangerous. We've heard
some real horror stories about these "modern style" tantra
teachers who were using their positions just to get sex and manipulate
people.
(Note: The above doesn't necessarily apply to spiritually oriented "sex
therapists". There are some people who don't teach traditional tantra tantric sex, haven't studied it really, but work with
sexuality in other ways. They may be sincere, and want to help people with their blocks.It can have validity for sexual/emotional sensitivity training, sexual
openness training, etc., but not traditional tantra tantric sex training.)
